Parasplosion

As I mention many times in this guide. I’m just explaining to you what worked for ME. Obviously there haven’t really been any medical studies on any of this and there are ways you could hurt yourself or cause damage. Here’s a list of the issues I can think of:

1. The W Position: I’m not 100% sure the W position caused me to break my femurs. But I’d say I’m 80% positive. Unfortunately the W position increases your chance of ejaculation success substantially. Still, I would be very careful with the W and not do this every day, or even every week. Maybe once a month max. It might even be worth getting an X ray or bone scan to make sure your bones are strong. Either way be careful, this position puts a lot of downward pressure on your hips and femurs and if you’re unlucky like me, this may result in bad things.
2. Autonomic Dysreflexia: a dangerous syndrome involving an overreaction of your autonomic nervous system. It causes a sudden and severe rise in blood pressure, in addition to other symptoms. If you are at risk for autonomic dysreflexia, make sure to speak with your doctor or a professional before trying this. I do not get AD but I have heard that successful ejaculation or even electricity can induce AD, so you ned to be EXTREMELY CAREFUL and definitely CONSULT A PROFESSIONAL BEFORE TRYING.
3. Electrical Burns: Sometimes I get minor electrical burns from the process in the form of tiny red dots. These tend to go away in 1-2 days. Obviously you want to take care of your skin always so make sure to do more research if you’re worried about it.
4. Edema and Swelling: If you go too crazy with the ferticare and apply to much pressure or use it for too long, you can cause swelling or edema of the penis. This is why I recommend using the ferticare towards the end of the protocol on your last 2 or 3, 5 minute tries, max.
5. Back Pain: I have experienced back pain from sitting in the “W” position for long periods of time. Generally my way of dealing with this was to go to the local park and hang from a pullup bar. I personally have spinal fusion from T8-T9, so any time you put pressure on the rods and pins in your spinal cord, you are taking a risk. Again, make sure to ask the appropriate professional before you attempt any of this. I’m just telling you what worked for me.

You’re going to want each loop to have 2 of the same color connected to it. So with 4 loops you’re going to have the following setups:

1. Black/Black
2. Black/Black
3. Red/Red
4. Red/Red

It’s going to look something like this:

1. The knobs on your tens unit are going to be turned to max. On my Tens 7000 unit this is at level 8 on both knobs.
2. The “Mode” is going to be set to “Normal-” do NOT use burst or any of the other modes, they didn’t work for me. Just stick with “Normal.”
3. The “Width” or the pulse width is going to be set to 300. To change the width, push the “set” button once.
   
4. The “Rate” is going to START at 50hz. Key words- START AT. To change the rate, push the “set” button twice.
   

WARNING!!! Please read!!!!!
I was tempted to take this entire guide down because of the W position. Since I made this guide, I fractured both of my femurs I believe as a result of overusing the W position. Please consider that as an individual with a spinal cord injury, your bones are weaker than a normal person’s. So while the W position does increase the chances of success substantially, you may be putting yourself at extreme risk. I will need major surgeries most likely to repair the damage done. Consider only using the W position very occasionally, perhaps to get a sperm sample to take to a lab. Consider trying all of this laying on your back instead. I would say the fractures were not worth it for the success that comes with the W position. Please, please, please, be careful.

What I am about to say may be very difficult for you to achieve depending upon your injury level. I personally am a “para” or a paraplegic. For someone who is a “quad” or a quadraplegic, I am not sure how you would go about getting into the W position. You may actually not need to. From what I’ve been told, achieving ejaculation/orgasm can be much easier for a quad, and you may not need to get into the W position. However, for me, the W position is extremely important– I cannot finish without it.

I want to make it EXTREMELY CLEAR. The W position may be dangerous. Sometimes after sitting in the W position for an extended period of time I get back pain.

***NOTE: For me personally, I sometimes have to go to a local park with a pullup bar and hang from the bar and do pullups to make this pain go away. The downward pressure on the spine from sitting in the W position can be a lot, though for me, it has not ultimately been a problem***

Again, THIS IS NOT MEDICAL ADVICE, ALWAYS TALK TO A DOCTOR. If you have titanium hardware in your spinal cord and spinal fusion like I do, you may want to be careful with the W position.

All this being said, as mentioned, I personally cannot finish without being in the W position. I believe it has something to do with stretching the quads and inducing muscle spasms. Muscle spasms seem to be important in achieving the ejaculation reflex. For me, laying down on my back doesn’t work very well- it has a very, very low success rate, though I have achieved ejaculation from the laying down position (rarely).

As mentioned in the “products list” above, I recommend getting a reading pillow to put under your butt, though it’s optional.

If you have to use the laying down position, I have read that putting a pillow or two under your butt or laying on a harder surface to cause spasms to occur helps.

From the bottom of the shaft to just below the tip, you’re going to want to position the loops in the following order: black, black, red, red.

Make sure to put the top loop BELOW THE TIP, NOT ON THE TIP- AS YOU PROBABLY REMEMBER FROM BEFORE YOU WERE INJURED, THE TIP IS VERY SENSITIVE.

The setup will look like this:

In my experience, it is better to take something to induce an erection if you are able to do so. My success rates tend to be much higher if I have taken a pill (in my case just 1 cialis will do the trick, nothing crazy).

Even if the erection goes down at times while attempting this, the added addition of cialis or viagra seems to help get me to the finish line. Without cialis or viagra it can be hit or miss sometimes but with, it seems to work more.

It is important to note though, it is entirely possible to ejaculate without an erection. I have even heard of some people having more success without an erection. Everyone is different.

I recommend clearing out anything in bowel and bladder. Not because you’ll have an accident, but because I noticed my success rate is higher when everything is cleared out.

Alright so this is the important part of the guide.

Note: I would recommend if you get through more than 4-5 sets with no results, and you are using the “W” position which I think is really important, try rocking back and forth and bending forward- lean forward and lean backwards some to stretch out your quad muscles. This helps induce the ejaculatory reflex sometimes.

As mentioned before in the “Setting up the Tens Unit” section above, you’re going to want to turn the knobs all the way to the max- 8.

Another important note:

As I mentioned earlier, I am a T8/T9 complete paraplegic. I need an extreme amount of stimulation to make it happen. If you have any feeling and/or are an incomplete injury, you can start lower on the hz. So I start at 50 hz, you could start at maybe 10 hz and go up by 10 each time. For me, ab muscle spasms are a sign it is working. I’m not an incomplete injury and I don’t have pain so it’s hard for me to tell you exactly what to do as an incomplete injury, so you will need to experiment a bit with the hz levels.

Set the “Pulse width” to the max- 300.

To begin, you’re going to start relatively LOW on the “Rate.” To access the “Rate” on your tens unit, press the “Set” button twice. You’re going to want to start your rate at 50 hz.

NOTE

Sometimes it can take only 3 sets to achieve ejaculation (around 20 minutes total). Other times it can require up to 8 sets (around 50 minutes total). Patience is required. Everyone is different. Following these protocols should work, but it will be different for different people with differing injury levels.

Set 1: 50 hz

Set the “Rate” to 50 hz on both units. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

1 to 2 Minute Break

Set 2: 75 hz

Set the “Rate” to 75 hz on both units. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

1 to 2 Minute Break

Set 3: 100 hz

Set the “Rate” to 100 hz on both units. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

1 to 2 Minute Break

Set 4: 125 hz

Set the “Rate” to 125 hz on both units. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

1 to 2 Minute Break

Set 5: 150 hz (Max)

Set the “Rate” to 150 hz on both units. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

1 to 2 Minute Break

Set 6: 150 hz (Max)

Set the “Rate” to 150 hz on both units. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

Note- During or after set 6, you can start using the Ferticare vibrator (positioning the vibrator below/underneath the tip) if you own a Ferticare. I set my ferticare to the maximum settings. So the knob at the top is set to max- 110hz, and the amplitude is set to 4.0. As I mentioned in the “risks” section. If you go to crazy with the ferticare- you push too hard or you go too long, you can cause swelling and edema. Also, if the Ferticare collides with the wires, sometimes you can get skin caught in between which can cause bleeding, so be careful. The ferticare should be positioned directly underneath the tip of the penis, and be gentle, try it on your finger and you will see why.

*****************AT THIS POINT, CONSIDER CHANGING THE ORDER OF THE LOOPS: IN ORDER FROM THE BASE OF THE SHAFT TO JUST BELOW THE TIP: CHANGE TO: RED, BLACK, BLACK, RED. CHANGING THE ORDER OF THE LOOPS OFTEN HELPS ME FOR SOME REASON****************

1 to 2 Minute Break

Set 7: 150 hz (Max)

Set the “Rate” to 150 hz. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

1 to 2 Minute Break

LAST SET: Set 8: 150 hz (Max)

Set the “Rate” to 150 hz. Set a timer either on your Tens unit or elsewhere for 5 minutes. Once 5 minutes have passed, take a 1-2 minute break. These breaks seem to be extremely important. If you do not take a break in between tries, it likely will not happen.

IF IT HASN’T HAPPENED BY SET 7 OR 8, IT’S PROBABLY NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. YOUR BEST BET IS TO STOP AND TRY AGAIN ANOTHER DAY.

Again, everyone is different. For me, when I start out a set, I can feel and see my ab muscles tense up. My legs will often spasm as well.

When I am about to ejaculate, it is very obvious that it is about to happen. The ab muscles tense up much more, the penis becomes much more erect, the legs begin to shake, and then there is about a 3 second gap in between ejaculation.

Many people ask: “Does it feel good?” My answer is: yes, it definitely feels good, and it is obviously an orgasm, but it is nowhere near as good as before.

Is it worth it? Depends. If you’re trying to get someone pregnant, obviously it is. If you’re trying to achieve an orgasm to the level you had before, don’t get your hopes up, but it DOES feel good and it is clearly an orgasm.

You have a few options here:

1. You can attempt to remove the loops during the 3 second gap you have in between realizing you’re about to ejaculate and then insert yourself inside of your significant other. I have attempted this myself and have run into issues with being able to insert in time. Also, one time I shocked my significant other on accident trying to get the loops off which she did not appreciate.
2. You can attempt at home artificial insemination with a syringe kit. My wife and I call this the “turkey baster” method. There’s a link above to the one that worked for us.
3. You can work with an IVF center and freeze your sperm. They will provide you a cup- you ejaculate into the cup, and bring the cup within an hour to the IVF center. IVF centers can also test your sperm quality if that’s something you’re interested in. The cost is anywhere from $500-$2000 for everything depending upon your location.

Laying on your back:

Before I figured this method out, when I was laying on my back, I had a success rate of around 1 out of 1000. Occasionally I could get it to work. Though it is more comfortable, I do not recommend laying on your back – at least in my case it rarely worked if ever.

In the “W” Position

Once I figured out the method I outlind above and learned about the “W” position, I was able to increase my success rate to 80-95%. Like anything else it takes practice. Everyone is different.

For me personally, if I want to, I can do this once a day. However, I noticed if you only wait a day in between tries, sometimes it takes a lot longer and occasionally does not work. Generally I recommend waiting at least 3 days in between tries or more to let the ejaculatory reflex recharge and to give your back a rest. Also the IVF center I worked with said for semen quality and quantity reasons if you are trying to get your wife pregnant, you want to wait around 1-2 weeks in between ejaculations.